Happiness

Divine Happiness

On January 28, 2012, in Happiness, Meditation, Spirituality, by Ken Prior
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Happiness is a frame of mind. It is possible just to tell yourself that today, no matter what, I will be happy. It is a decision that results in divine happiness. You can distinguish between happiness and divine happiness by where it originates. Quite often happiness is attached to external events. Something outside of you pleases you, and you feel happy because of it. Divine happiness originates within. You recognize that you have the power within yourself to make it happen. Once you have made the decision, it just is. You are in effect deciding to enjoy your life no matter what is happening in the outside world. If you have trouble dropping the drama of the outside world, try one of the numerous available meditation techniques. You will find calm and you will find your divine happiness.

How to get someone to admit they have an anger problem

Somewhere around 1985 I discovered personal responsibility and finally understood it was me choosing to be angry over what other people did instead of them making me angry. No one can make me angry but me. It’s a choice. Emotions are not instant things, you always have a choice as to which emotion you want to feel. However to people with anger problems it doesn’t seem that way.

How you can get someone to admit they have an anger problem will be your biggest problem. Most don’t want to admit they have any shortcomings at all and anger is one of the hardest to admit to. If the people you know with anger issues also drink a lot of alcohol it makes it that much harder for you to get them to admit they do have a problem.

Online anger management

People who get angry act in different ways. Some lash out or become very defensive. Other people tend to keep their anger to themselves, bottling up their negative emotions and pain. While some people become reckless and even abusive. Anger can be a very harmful emotion if it isn’t controlled or managed in the correct way. This is where online anger management can help.

Many people who have anger issues find it demeaning when anger management is suggested. They see it, most of the time as a control issue and they don’t want to admit they aren’t always in control of themselves. Inability to accept their anger problem prevents them from seeking the help they require.